Good Friday

Jesus dies on the cross.

Let us begin by calling to the Lord in song. The Words are provided please feel free to join in the singing.

 opening prayeR (Aloud)

Our Father, who art in heaven, sacred is Your Word. Your kingdom come, Your Words be heard on earth as they are in heaven. Give us today Your Sacred Word. Forgive our neglect of it in the past as we forgive those who neglect us. Lead us toward an encounter with You each time we delve into the Scriptures. For Your presence, Your power, and Your glory are ever present among us now and forever.

Amen


A Reading from the Gospel of John: (JN 18:1—19:42)

Jesus went out with his disciples across the Kidron valley to where there was a garden, into which he and his disciples entered. Judas his betrayer also knew the place, because Jesus had often met there with his disciples. So Judas got a band of soldiers and guards from the chief priests and the Pharisees and went there with lanterns, torches, and weapons.Jesus, knowing everything that was going to happen to him, went out and said to them, “Whom are you looking for?” They answered him, “Jesus the Nazorean.” He said to them, “I AM.” Judas his betrayer was also with them. When he said to them, “I AM, “ they turned away and fell to the ground. So he again asked them, “Whom are you looking for?” They said, “Jesus the Nazorean.” Jesus answered, “I told you that I AM. So if you are looking for me, let these men go.”
This was to fulfill what he had said, “I have not lost any of those you gave me.” Then Simon Peter, who had a sword, drew it, struck the high priest’s slave, and cut off his right ear. The slave’s name was Malchus. Jesus said to Peter, “Put your sword into its scabbard. Shall I not drink the cup that the Father gave me?”

So the band of soldiers, the tribune, and the Jewish guards seized Jesus, bound him, and brought him to Annas first. He was the father-in-law of Caiaphas, who was high priest that year. It was Caiaphas who had counseled the Jews that it was better that one man should die rather than the people.

Simon Peter and another disciple followed Jesus. Now the other disciple was known to the high priest, and he entered the courtyard of the high priest with Jesus.But Peter stood at the gate outside. So the other disciple, the acquaintance of the high priest, went out and spoke to the gatekeeper and brought Peter in. Then the maid who was the gatekeeper said to Peter, “You are not one of this man’s disciples, are you?” He said, “I am not.” Now the slaves and the guards were standing around a charcoal fire that they had made, because it was cold,
and were warming themselves. Peter was also standing there keeping warm.

The high priest questioned Jesus about his disciples and about his doctrine. Jesus answered him, “I have spoken publicly to the world. I have always taught in a synagogue or in the temple area where all the Jews gather, and in secret I have said nothing.  Why ask me? Ask those who heard me what I said to them. They know what I said.” When he had said this, one of the temple guards standing there struck Jesus and said, “Is this the way you answer the high priest?” Jesus answered him, “If I have spoken wrongly, testify to the wrong; but if I have spoken rightly, why do you strike me?” Then Annas sent him bound to Caiaphas the high priest.

Now Simon Peter was standing there keeping warm. And they said to him, “You are not one of his disciples, are you?” He denied it and said,
“I am not.” One of the slaves of the high priest, a relative of the one whose ear Peter had cut off, said, “Didn’t I see you in the garden with him?” Again Peter denied it. And immediately the cock crowed.

Then they brought Jesus from Caiaphas to the praetorium. It was morning. And they themselves did not enter the praetorium, in order not to be defiled so that they could eat the Passover. So Pilate came out to them and said, “What charge do you bring against this man?” They answered and said to him, “If he were not a criminal, we would not have handed him over to you.” At this, Pilate said to them, “Take him yourselves, and judge him according to your law.” The Jews answered him, “We do not have the right to execute anyone, “
 
in order that the word of Jesus might be fulfilled that he said indicating the kind of death he would die. So Pilate went back into the praetorium and summoned Jesus and said to him, “Are you the King of the Jews?” Jesus answered, “Do you say this on your own or have others told you about me?” Pilate answered, “I am not a Jew, am I? Your own nation and the chief priests handed you over to me. What have you done?” Jesus answered, “My kingdom does not belong to this world. If my kingdom did belong to this world, my attendants would be fighting to keep me from being handed over to the Jews. But as it is, my kingdom is not here.” So Pilate said to him, “Then you are a king?” Jesus answered, “You say I am a king. For this I was born and for this I came into the world, to testify to the truth.Everyone who belongs to the truth listens to my voice.” Pilate said to him, “What is truth?”

When he had said this, he again went out to the Jews and said to them, “I find no guilt in him. But you have a custom that I release one prisoner to you at Passover. Do you want me to release to you the King of the Jews?” They cried out again, “Not this one but Barabbas!”
Now Barabbas was a revolutionary.

Then Pilate took Jesus and had him scourged. And the soldiers wove a crown out of thorns and placed it on his head, and clothed him in a purple cloak, and they came to him and said, “Hail, King of the Jews!” And they struck him repeatedly. Once more Pilate went out and said to them, “Look, I am bringing him out to you, so that you may know that I find no guilt in him.” So Jesus came out, wearing the crown of horns and the purple cloak. And he said to them, “Behold, the man!” When the chief priests and the guards saw him they cried out, “Crucify him, crucify him!”
 
Pilate said to them, “Take him yourselves and crucify him. I find no guilt in him.” The Jews answered, “We have a law, and according to that law he ought to die, because he made himself the Son of God.” Now when Pilate heard this statement, he became even more afraid, and went back into the praetorium and said to Jesus, “Where are you from?” Jesus did not answer him. So Pilate said to him, “Do you not speak to me? Do you not know that I have power to release you and I have power to crucify you?” Jesus answered him, “You would have no power over me if it had not been given to you from above. For this reason the one who handed me over to you has the greater sin.” Consequently, Pilate tried to release him; but the Jews cried out, “If you release him, you are not a Friend of Caesar. Everyone who makes himself a king opposes Caesar.”

When Pilate heard these words he brought Jesus out and seated him on the judge’s bench in the place called Stone Pavement, in Hebrew, Gabbatha. It was preparation day for Passover, and it was about noon. And he said to the Jews, “Behold, your king!” They cried out, “Take him away, take him away!  Crucify him!” Pilate said to them, “Shall I crucify your king?” The chief priests answered, “We have no king but Caesar.” Then he handed him over to them to be crucified.

So they took Jesus, and, carrying the cross himself, he went out to what is called the Place of the Skull, in Hebrew, Golgotha. There they crucified him, and with him two others, one on either side, with Jesus in the middle. Pilate also had an inscription written and put on the cross.It read, “Jesus the Nazorean, the King of the Jews.” Now many of the Jews read this inscription, because the place where Jesus was crucified was near the city; and it was written in Hebrew, Latin, and Greek. So the chief priests of the Jews said to Pilate,

“Do not write ‘The King of the Jews,’ but that he said, ‘I am the King of the Jews’.” Pilate answered, “What I have written, I have written.”

When the soldiers had crucified Jesus, they took his clothes and divided them into four shares, a share for each soldier. They also took his tunic, but the tunic was seamless, woven in one piece from the top down. So they said to one another, “Let’s not tear it, but cast lots for it to see whose it will be, “ in order that the passage of Scripture might be fulfilled that says: They divided my garments among them, and for my vesture they cast lots.This is what the soldiers did. Standing by the cross of Jesus were his mother and his mother’s sister, Mary the wife of Clopas, and Mary of Magdala. When Jesus saw his mother and the disciple there whom he loved he said to his mother, “Woman, behold, your son.” Then he said to the disciple, “Behold, your mother.” And from that hour the disciple took her into his home.

After this, aware that everything was now finished, in order that the Scripture might be fulfilled, Jesus said, “I thirst.” There was a vessel filled with common wine. So they put a sponge soaked in wine on a sprig of hyssop and put it up to his mouth. When Jesus had taken the wine, he said, “It is finished.” And bowing his head, he handed over the spirit. Now since it was preparation day, in order that the bodies might not remain on the cross on the sabbath, for the sabbath day of that week was a solemn one, the Jews asked Pilate that their legs be broken and that they be taken down. So the soldiers came and broke the legs of the first and then of the other one who was crucified with Jesus. But when they came to Jesus and saw that he was already dead, they did not break his legs, but one soldier thrust his lance into his side, and immediately blood and water flowed out. An eyewitness has testified, and his testimony is true; he knows that he is speaking the truth, so that you also may come to believe. For this happened so that the Scripture passage might be fulfilled: Not a bone of it will be broken.And again another passage says: They will look upon him whom they have pierced.

After this, Joseph of Arimathea, secretly a disciple of Jesus for fear of the Jews, asked Pilate if he could remove the body of Jesus. And Pilate permitted it. So he came and took his body. Nicodemus, the one who had first come to him at night, also came bringing a mixture of myrrh and aloes weighing about one hundred pounds.They took the body of Jesus and bound it with burial cloths along with the spices,
according to the Jewish burial custom. Now in the place where he had been crucified there was a garden, and in the garden a new tomb, in which no one had yet been buried. So they laid Jesus there because of the Jewish preparation day; for the tomb was close by.


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As you listen, spend some moments in quiet reflection with our Lord. Envisaging him on Calgary.

Sit vigil with the Virgin Mary as he takes his last breaths.

Stay and watch as the soldiers pierce his side.

Follow Joseph and Nicodemus as they anoint his body.

Watch as they carefully wrap his body in cloth and lay him in the tomb.

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Questions for Reflection:

Having journeyed through Christ’s final moments, let us take some time to reflect on Jesus’s last words, Taking time to quietly contemplate each one and pray to the Holy Spirit to write them upon our hearts.

Take the time as you go to write down your reflections and say the prayer as you finish each section.

Father, forgive them; they know not what they do.
— Luke 23:34

PRAYER OF ABANDONMENT TO GOD’S PROVIDENCE

My Lord and my God: into your hands I abandon the past and the present and the future, what is small and what is great, what amounts to a little and what amounts to a lot, things temporal and things eternal. Amen.

It is often so hard for us to grasp the real gravity our sin. How many times have we claimed that someone was overreacting to our bad behavior or sat confused while someone took something as hurtful when we meant it as a joke.

We wound without thinking. We even wound God without giving it a second thought. Yet Jesus here on the cross in his infinite love for us asks for our pardon. He understands us.

We look at God through the lens of Christ. His humanity helping us to contemplate the vastness of the Almighty and our relationship with Christ giving us the courage to look up from our lowly place.

But here on the Cross, God also looks at us through the lens of Christ forgiven out of love and redeemed by his Son.

How can we learn to see ourselves through the lens of Christ?


Somewhere in this darkness we should always remember that we as Christians never live in darkness and despair.

We know how the story ends. We are called to be saints among men. Forever preparing ourselves to for the day we shall see Christ again. O what infinite Joy!

But now is also good time to take stock of the price we may pay here on Earth for following that path. The world is not kind to those who seeks Truth and Justice. Just as we are called to be like Christ in our pursuit of all things Holy, We can see here on the Cross that we may be called upon to join Christ in that suffering..

But, do not be afraid. Jesus goes with you always. Just as we sit with him now at the foot of his Cross.

Are we prepared to follow Jesus everywhere, even if it leads to suffering?

Amen, I say to you, today you will be with me in Paradise.
— Luke 23:43

PRAYER OF ABANDONMENT TO GOD’S PROVIDENCE

My Lord and my God: into your hands I abandon the past and the present and the future, what is small and what is great, what amounts to a little and what amounts to a lot, things temporal and things eternal. Amen.


Woman, behold, your son.” (…) “Behold, your mother.
— John 19:262-27

PRAYER OF ABANDONMENT TO GOD’S PROVIDENCE

My Lord and my God: into your hands I abandon the past and the present and the future, what is small and what is great, what amounts to a little and what amounts to a lot, things temporal and things eternal. Amen.

Mary sits here with us at the foot of Jesus’ Cross. As we read in the Gospel, she has watched as soldiers cast lots for his clothing. From the other Gospels, she has listened while passersby mocked and derided him, taunting him to come down, to rescue himself if he is really the Son of God.

But she does not shout at them or run away. She has one task in this moment, to accompany her son in his suffering. She can not fix this. She can not make this easier. She can only sit here at the foot of his cross to lovingly remind him that even here he is not alone.

Jesus returns her love by declaring her the mother of his disciple. She is the mother of all the disciples of Christ.

What can worry us when we know that Mary, Queen of Heaven is our mother? Do we recognize that the Virgin also sits at the feet of our crosses just as she did her Son?


“He wants them to learn to walk and must therefore take away His hand; and if only the will to walk is really there He is pleased even with their stumbles. Do not be deceived, Wormwood. Our cause is never more in danger, than when a human, no longer desiring, but intending, to do our Enemy’s will, looks round upon a universe from which every trace of Him seems to have vanished, and asks why he has been forsaken, and still obeys.” C.S. Lewis, The Screwtape Letters

So often if can feel as if we are praying into a void. That we have called out endless times to God to ease our suffering, to help us through a trial and feel that we have not gotten an answer. It is in those times, when we choose to keep going in the silence is when we show that we love God the most. Faith is always there to lead you, providing you a guide and illuminating the path before us.

Have you ever felt that God was silent? What do you do in times of spiritual drought to continue to walk in faith?

My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?
— Mark 15:34

PRAYER OF ABANDONMENT TO GOD’S PROVIDENCE

My Lord and my God: into your hands I abandon the past and the present and the future, what is small and what is great, what amounts to a little and what amounts to a lot, things temporal and things eternal. Amen.


I thirst.
— John 19:28

PRAYER OF ABANDONMENT TO GOD’S PROVIDENCE

My Lord and my God: into your hands I abandon the past and the present and the future, what is small and what is great, what amounts to a little and what amounts to a lot, things temporal and things eternal. Amen.

Here is Jesus at his most human. He is making a simple request. It is a simple act of kindness. We can not forget the power of these simple acts of kindness as we go about our daily lives. Saint Theresa of Calcuttta reminds us, “Not all of us can do great things. But we can do small things with great love.“

How can we provide for Christ is his moment of need here on the cross? Jesus provides us the answer in Matthew 25: 40: “‘Truly, I say to you, as you did it to one of the least of these my brethren, you did it to me.’“

How can you cure Jesus’ thirst today? Have you committed yourself to accompanying Christ in this way?


Sitting here in the silence of the Cross, now that the Lamb has been sacrificed, the world is different. You are different. You are redeemed. No longer a sinner, but on the road to sainthood.

“Love is revealed to us in the incarnation, the redemptive journey which Jesus Christ made on our earth, culminating in the supreme sacrifice of the cross. And on the cross it showed itself through a new sign: ‘One of the soldiers pierced his side with a spear, and at once there came out blood and water.’ This water and blood of Jesus speak to us of a self-sacrifice brought to the last extreme: ‘It is finished’ – everything is achieved, for the sake of love.” St. Josemaria Escriva Christ is Passing By, no. 162

Now that you are redeemed, what guilt or burden do you need to leave here at the foot of the Cross, so that you can move forward on the road to sainthood?

It is finished.
— John 19:30

PRAYER OF ABANDONMENT TO GOD’S PROVIDENCE

My Lord and my God: into your hands I abandon the past and the present and the future, what is small and what is great, what amounts to a little and what amounts to a lot, things temporal and things eternal. Amen.


Father, into your hands, I commend my spirit.
— Luke 23:46

Here is Christ even in his last moments, committing himself to the Father’s hands. Where are all his disciples? Where are the throngs of people that welcomed him less than a week ago into Jerusalem? Here Jesus dies with only a small few to watch and wait. But God is here, to hold Jesus. No longer forsaken, but cradled in the hands of the Creator. We do not need to wait until the moment of death to have the same comfort. You can commend your spirit into the hands of the Creator today.

Having journeyed through Christ’s passion on the Cross, are you now ready to commend your own spirit into God’s Hands?

PRAYER OF ABANDONMENT TO GOD’S PROVIDENCE

My Lord and my God: into your hands I abandon the past and the present and the future, what is small and what is great, what amounts to a little and what amounts to a lot, things temporal and things eternal. Amen.

To holy people the very name of Jesus is a name to feed upon, a name to transport. His name can raise the dead and transfigure and beautify the living. –
— Saint John Henry Newman

Stations of the Cross

The responses to be said out loud as you follow along are in white. Feel free to sing along to the Stabat Mater in blue.

We close this time of meditation in silence as is our Good Friday Tradition.